Often the true meaning of a term or identity gradually morphs into something dramatically opposite or dis-related.
Take Leadership. By definition a leader is one that ‘goes along to guide and show the way’ or ‘one that directs or has authority over others.’ The term leadership is derived from the term ‘lead’ meaning ‘to go, travel.’ With over 56 definitions for the word’ lead’ and 13 for leader, it may be no small wonder that there is a confused or blank stare when asking others to identify the ethical leaders of the day.
A family of Armenians who are willing to have their arguments and aberrations made into today’s headlines are not true leaders unless the result of their guidance is to have others emulate their lifestyle.
Then there are the presumed leaders in politics whose authority and honesty may never pass a true litmus test and whose guidance is “Do what I say, not what I do” and whose respect for those who follow is often facetious and intended only to benefit themselves and their bureaucratic team at the fiscal and physical expense of those who follow.
And there are the gang leaders who dominate by fear, self-interest, manipulation, deceit, and violence selling drugs and chaos. Are we still talking about politicians?
A true leader has the ability to create goals that enhance the self-sufficiency of those who follow, who guides them with respect and compassion, permits discovery and experience, and removes unnecessary barriers. A true leader is not the end but a means to an end. A true leader appreciates the challenges and demonstrates persistence, resilience, and courage. A true leader does not seek fame and fortune from his leadership but considers it an honor to serve and understands the responsibility to be truthful. These attributes can lead a kindergarten to corporation.
I thank the true leaders found in every walk of life. You are appreciated and needed to help evolve our culture, enhance those who follow and together we can Make Peace Profitable.
Gillian